Relationships hold a high place for most of us guys and girls. We want outstanding relationships with clear communication, empathy, understanding, mutual trust, friendship, and great sex - we want DYNAMITE RELATIONSHIPS.

But what do we get much of the time? Relationships loaded with communication issues, irritability, conflict, misunderstandings, blame, hurt and anger! If you have a relationship like this you know what I mean. Stress grows and settles in your muscles and organs and you develop fibromyalgia, migraines, stomach problems, anxiety and depression.

The longer that relationship stress goes on, the longer your immune system is shut down, and the longer your muscles and organs are exposed to dangerous stress hormones. You are at risk. If you have an illness, it will get worse. If you have no illness yet, you will likely get one.

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How Long A Guy Should Wait To Call A Woman Back - Part 2
By David DeAngelo

If you think about it, every situation is slightly different. One time you might meet a woman in the morning at coffee, and another time you might meet a woman at a club at 1 in the morning.

If you wait too long to call her back, I think you run the risk of seeming like you’re just using a technique on her and you come across as a player who’s trying to do your thing on her.

When deciding how long to wait before you call or email, I think it’s important to ask yourself this question:

What will likely increase the attraction in this situation?

Here are a couple of ideas I have used with great success:

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How Long A Guy Should Wait To Call A Woman Back - Part 1
By David DeAngelo

If you’ve seen the classic cult movie “Swingers,” then you probably remember the part where the guys are discussing how long a guy should wait to call a woman after he’s gotten her phone number.

The scene really hits home for a lot of guys because it gets down to a real-world situation that we all confront and ponder.

The more I’ve thought about it, the more I realize that this particular question (and the answer to it) are part of a bigger, more important CONCEPT about how to deal with women.

When a guy asks me How long should I wait to call her this immediately tells me a few of things:

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How I Discovered What Works With Dating Women – Part 2
by David DeAngelo

If you look at it from an ‘economic’ standpoint, it doesn’t benefit women at all to have their man running around having sex with other women. She can only be pregnant with one child at a time, and she can only raise a limited number at a time. So having a man who’s out spreading his seed is BAD BAD BAD for business for her.

When you’re out spreading seed, you can’t be working or at home helping. Even worse, you might have other kids with other women who will further divide your attention and income. (By the way, I’m not saying that there’s anything wrong with women’s perspectives. I’m just saying that if you look at it from their point of view, there’s not a lot of benefit to having a man who likes to sleep with a lot of women.)

So anything that promotes monogamy like religion is seen as ‘right’ to many women, as it goes along with what they think and feel.
Now let’s talk about men.

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How I Discovered What Works With Dating Women – Part 1
By David DeAngelo

After many years of studying, researching, and trying many different things, I’ve now realized that there is a conspiracy against men being successful with women. It’s very real, and it’s very pervasive in our culture.

Let me explain.

Most men that I know have some kind of ‘feeling’ that it’s wrong in some way to sleep with more than one woman at a time. (I’m not even referring to a Ménage à Trois, either. I’m talking about plain old run-of-the-mill dating a couple of women at a time here.)

But most women that I know have more than just a ‘feeling’ about this idea. Most women are outspoken and very forward about the idea that it’s WRONG for most men to date and sleep with more than one woman. You can see it in their faces and hear it in their voices when they talk about this topic.

If you know what I’m talking about, give me a silent nod here.

What I’ve discovered by doing my homework is that the moral idea of monogamy (having only one partner at a time) has been formalized, passed down, and force-fed to us culturally by rulers, religions, and women for thousands of years.
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Body Language Dating Advice
By David DeAngelo

Many people agree that women are far more sensitive to body language than men are.

I have to say that in my experience, women can detect all kinds of things from body language. Ask a female friend to describe what’s going on with a person by looking at them, and you’ll be surprised at all the information they’ll give you. Read more »

Biggest Dating Obstacles To Success With Women
By David DeAngelo

Insecurity and neediness are two of the biggest obstacles to success with women. Insecurity and neediness are like hemlock and arsenic – either will kill your attractiveness when dealing with women.

A man is needy when he craves attention or recognition. He shows that he’s insecure when he ACTS on these needs.

Insecurity shows up when a man does not feel comfortable with who he is or comfortable in a given situation. He acts tentative, weak, and unsure. He tries to put on a show of confidence which is obviously fake. He says things that are out of place in an attempt to get approval.

Women detect insecurity and neediness INSTANTLY.

Here are some examples of insecurity and neediness to avoid

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Before heading off in quest for your soul mate, it would be wise to have a conscious plan of where exactly you are going and what you are looking for; otherwise you risk getting lost in the jungles of the unknown and arriving to the wrong destination.

The person who has thought something through is usually the one that gets the result they are looking for. A plan with a list of concrete actionable steps is one of the keys to reaching your relationship goal. It gives you the guidelines and determination to make the first steps, gradually moving closer to your soul mate dream.

To help you create a plan that is balanced, realistic, well thought-out and most importantly one that works I have listed below principles and strategies already used successfully by many others to manifest their soul mate reality sooner. Here goes:

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Research Findings - Why Geeks and Nerds Don’t Get Lucky With Women
By Christine Akiteng

From time to time, I attend exclusive and upscale singles’ networking events just to keep myself abreast with what’s happening in the dating world.

For a long time, my female clients have told me that it’s hard to meet “interesting” men despite all the many singles events in and around the Greater Toronto Area. The women say “Canadian men are really sexually boring” that’s why they’d rather sit by their computers chatting with “foreigners” across the border or far across seas.

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Free Internet Dating Site - Tips for Men And Joining Free Dating Sites Today
By Alan Lim

In today’s busy life, men might not have enough time to find a true friend or a soul mate.

It has been seen that very often men get too involved with their career goals that they are not able to spend quality time to find a person of their dreams. Mostly they look for a partner whom they can date in their work area. It not only limits their choices but also they might have to wait longer to meet the woman they might like. Free internet dating site can give you more choices to find someone who can understand you better.

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